People Who Have Had Their Nudes Leaked Are Sharing the Horror Stories (And the Aftermath)

This didn't happen to me personally, but my sister was involved and the FBI came to our house for questioning. At Growing up in the same gated community for around ten years, we all knew each other pretty well. One of my neighbors used to come around and help my dad with scrapping metal or various other random things, my dad had lost his job and our neighbor was declared disabled by the army. Our neighbor was married with two kids around my sisters age.

The neighbor used to flirt with me constantly, telling me he wished I was his wife instead and how hot I was. I remember laughing it off nervously, I have bad anxiety. I had a son four years ago when I was 21, and when he made the comment of saying he wished I was the mother of his kids I told my dad.

I had just broken up with my son's father and was back living with my parents. My dad threatened the neighbor and told him how everyone in the neighbor already thought he was a creepy pedophile and that he needed to back off. The neighbor had made similar remarks to young women in the neighborhood and even asked to do a naked plaster mold on one of the pregnant neighbors.

The neighbor admitted he talked to girls online and that he and his wife slept in separate beds, they weren't together, etc. One night my dad received a call from the neighbors wife to come up to the front of the community by the gate, that she was driving her husband up there and surprising him with the cops and she wanted support. My dad was the HOA president for years when we lived there.

So the cops arrive as they're pulling up and my neighbor is very confused, and then his wife hands over his phone to the police saying he had been involved in child pornography and there's photos of him having sex with his 13 year old daughter, of her performing oral sex on him, and her sitting spread legged on his bed.

After searching through his computers and phones he collected, they had over 1000 images of underage girls and some were out of state that he talked to on Kik. A few nights after the arrest, the FBI showed up at our door wanting to speak to my sister.

My sister had a nude photo that leaked that same year in her middle school. We thought it was a joke that these guys in these suits showed up claiming to be the FBI til they mentioned her photo. They talked to her in private and also my parents and a few other underage girls in the community.

He was arrested and sent to federal prison with a restraining order against his whole family and charged with child abuse and distributing/producing child pornography. We later found out there was a big CP circle in a city nearby where he would go to meet friends and they'd all exchange it.

I know of another girl in another state who was contacted by the FBI and her and her family pressed charges as well. He was messaging her through Kik.

There were articles placed into our local newspaper about him, but the information that it was his daughter never actually surfaced so that his daughter had a chance to start fresh in a new school and start therapy without reporters harassing her. She was homeschooled by him her entire life while her mom worked and her brother was also homeschooled but claimed to not know anything about the situation.

Username: londonbreeze

A few years ago I was filmed and it was put online it totally messed me up, living in fear that anyone would discover it especially in school. It ate at me quite a lot as there is a huge stigma on this where I live. I can say it occupied my mind every single day and I felt absolutely helpless.

Eventually I tried to lean into it for my mental health and well yes to earn some money, so I actively started to create content. I thought this could allow me to control the narrative and that "it's my decision".

The content I creates was trying to be anonymous, at first I wore a mask and later I blurred my face when it accidentally came into frame. I thought I gained more confidence in this and spent doing content for more than a year.

I also had a few productions with some minor studios, which was okay in my mind as these are not accessible in my country (or only through VPN). However after my first year in uni, my dean asked me to come to his office and he confronted me with my side hustle.

He shared the uni received anonymous tip that I create pornographic content and they do not tolerate this for any faculty or student (it's all about saving face). He said that he has no concrete evidence it's me so he can't enforce any suspension but he said they'd have to take the report seriously.

Naturally I reduced my content output but I think the damage was done, I had professors and students asking me if that was me. Some where disgusted and some tried to get some form of advantage out of it. Some I entertained to get passed this and some I didn't.

There was never hard evidence that it was me but people that knew me closer could tell as I mostly shot my content in my own studio apartment. Also a student I had been seeing in the past was able to confirm that it was me, due to a birthmark and tattoo. These things spread fast and within a month it felt the whole uni knew.

My grades dropped and I believe this was either punishment or an attempt to get a sexual favor out of it. An other fallout was that my class-mates and other students distanced themselves from me. Yea so, I had a real bad time.

Eventually the uni had a conference on how to proceed with me being a student and eventually the dean asked me into this office again. He highly recommended me to transfer and they'd put in good recommendation to get thise over with, otherwise they'd need to expell me at the end of the term.

Apperantly there was a big push from parents on this as well. I had to uproot my life, change uni, lost my friends and had to start again (sort of) at an other uni across town. Since then I took down my original reddit, OF and trying to this day to get content down.

My own content was pretty easy to get down (the big 3 pornsites are surprisingly helpful) but it seems they keep springing up now and then again under different titles and slightly modified playtime. I assume that this is because my content is on some local boards and gets reuploaded still. Obviously the content done by the studio I can't touch as I signed release forms and it's theirs.

So yea, the short is it bit me really in my ass and still suffer the consequences. I learned the hardway to keep my head down in terms of online content, as I was clearly not ready for the impact it has on my life. I still fear that someone in my uni will recognize me somehow.

Username: ShyThai_oO

Back when I was in high school (about 16 at the time) I got an iPad for xmas, over winter break I had some of friends come visit from out of town. We had fun but they weren't the same people I had grown close to. People change and grow apart overtime, it's just a part of life.

When one of my friends is over I'm looking for my iPad to put on the charger before we leave for the day, couldn't find it and figured my sister was borrowing it. It was their last day in town and there was a huge blizzard coming in a couple days so they had to get on the road so they left and it was the last time I ever saw them (I live in MO and they had moved to MI)

Fast forward a couple days and it's a snow day (I think it was Monday) there was about 4ft of snow on the ground and almost nobody in town had power. So I slept in and woke up to my phone completely blown up with literally hundreds of messages (I had an iPhone).

To my horror someone who had my iPad had found my nudes from old messages that were backed up to the iPad and leaked them. Not just to every single social media account I had, but to everyone on my contact list that had iMessage.

Including my mom, dad (who I was not close with) step-dad, all my friends from school (including some teachers and faculty members that I texted for school related stuff and people who had messaged the wrong number by mistake) they also texted some people they knew who had iMessage and making a craigslist ad to top it all off. I've never been so embarrassed in my entire life.

I knew who it was, those skanks I used to call friends stole my iPad, found the pics and decided to to the most damage they could and I still to this day I have no idea why. I called 911 hysterically and they said they would put a detective on the case but since the crimes happened in two separate states they won't have any jurisdiction especially since the thieves are now in MI.

Fast foreword again a few days when I'm back at school, the schools PO called me into her office and told me that she had heard about what happened. She explained to me that another girl at the other high school had her nudes leaked by an ex of hers.

He made a FB revenge page with videos and pics of her. She took him to court and ultimately nothing happened because they wouldn't indite him without convicting her for distributing child pornography. The PO explained to me that I couldn't go after them for the crime because I would ultimately be the one getting jail time for A.

Taking child porn photos and B. Being the person to originally distribute them. She told me that the only thing I could do was sue them for defamation and fraud but I would likely get charged with distribution of child pornography. If I wanted to get my iPad I would have to drive to MI to confront them by myself.

My parents were against going to court and wanted to brush everything under the rug. My moms own words were "you chose your friends so what happened is your fault." I was obviously devastated.

They go away with everything and now 6 years later it's extremely hard for me to make new friends or to trust anybody. My phones on 1% so I'll update this later if anyone is interested in knowing more. Sorry I'm a pretty shitty story teller.

Username: mimithemartian

I was threatened into sending them to my boyfriend when I was 14 (he was 17 and I was terrified of him since he raped me but I had been too scared to actually break up at this point). 2 years later, the photo got sent round my school. And this was like 2009. So phones were starting to be okay.

And some guy hooked up his phone to the projector in english class while the teacher was out the room. I basically stopped going to school apart from to go to exams (this was only a couple months before exams so most classes were already just revising anyway).

I was bullied for it. In school bullying, and cyber bullying. Lost the little confidence I had managed to build since the rape since there were a tonne of insults about my body- some of those insults still stick with me.

I became scared of most guys as well- because of how many seemingly nice guys who I’d considered friendly acquaintances said weird creepy comments to me about it. I really no longer trusted my gut on whether someone was a decent person or not. Now it wasn’t just my ex proving he was shit- it was A LOT of people, men especially, proving they were shit and I was wrong to think otherwise.

It also really creeped me out that he had kept the photo for 2 years before it got sent round as well. I feared other things coming out- like I wasn’t sure if I had definitely just sent him one photo or if there had been more than one. Or what if everyone found out I was a rape victim?

The few people who knew the origin of the photo and why I had sent it were pretty supportive. But I skipped prom. I changed to a different school after exams and I avoided going to the town near the school in case I saw people that had seen the photos.

A couple of teachers knew and did nothing- they acted like they didn’t know. So I lost trust in teachers. All adults really. I already self harmed and had attempted suicide because of the rape but the photo being sent round added to it. I had another attempt and ended up in the emergency room.

Self harmed even more. Mentally, I was a mess and while a lot of the mental health problems extended to before the photo was sent round school, it definitely didn’t help and the mental health issues continued for many years.

Eventually I recovered from the trauma mostly, and I don’t live my life in fear as much. But sometimes I still get anxious about it. Also, I still don’t go to that town. I still feel a bit awkward if I bump into someone I knew from school wondering if they saw the photo or not.

And I never made a youtube channel or went on the x factor. Which were things I really wanted to do at the time it happened and in the few years after (like 2009 to 2013 ish). Because I was worried the photo was still out there on someone’s phone or computer and that if they saw me on x factor or on a youtube video, I feared they would share it and the whole world would see it.

I knew the chance of me becoming famous or just a bit known were slim and that even if I did, the photos probably wouldn’t be shared considering they were taken when I was 14 and would be classed as child porn, but I avoided any chance of any attention at all just in case.

Username: TheGreenPangolin

I was sextorted in 2020, and I have been a software engineer for 25 years now, currently working in firmware development for medical devices. I purposely avoided acquiring extensive knowledge of security both to avoid being watchlisted, and to avoid hanging around the communities that perform these exploits, because that crowd can be quite dangerous.

After extensive post mortem analysis, I was floored by the extent of the hacking. There was evidence of multiple breakins when I was out of town, physical tampering of devices (every single router I owned had been opened and compromised, warranty seals were broken), cell phones compromised, hue lights compromised, my PC and laptop were hacked, and overall I basically had to rebuild everything from the ground up.

80 accounts had been compromised, bank accounts had Nigerian numbers added as the main number. Also, hack rf or some device like that, had been used to access my car and trunk, along with screwing with my hue lights.

Worse, I learned that this had been ongoing for years, and then quite a few more things became clear. Information leaks now had an explanation. But, the worst thing they did, was so subtle it was one of the last things I figured out.

It seemed that my entire social circle took a hike the past decade. I would send email, phone calls, texts, and was ignored, decades long friendships, gone. Admittedly I was a little bit depressed after my divorce for a couple of years, but still, not a single person?

And, that's when I found evidence of call blocking, email blocking, etc. In other words, chances are, many likely never received anything. But, in other cases, they may have simply reworded what was sent (I found evidence of that), so its not a given that I can just call.

It explains why I have been so isolated, and I can say it is the worst experience imaginable. It's so much worse than overt attacks, because what your brain does, psychologically, is it both turns up the sensitivity to threats, meaning that everything is threatening, and you tend to misperceive it as an attack, when really, everything is radio silent.

It is such a strange experience, and since it's such a peadoxical reaction, it can make you look crazy. Worse, the anxiety, can cause you to voluntarily self isolate even more.

It absolutely sucks, because my story is both not completely known by me, and also, it is almost impossible to fix the damage done to my social life because of how convoluted and inane the tactics used by the hackers, were. In other words, I can't just easily explain it and put it behind me, still don't know the names of all parties involved, and no, the police didn't do anything.

P.S. They did not receive a dime, and I really think the sextortion was a distraction, as several pieces of important information on a hard drive I owned, were gone. That's the other thing, they almost always lie about their motives, nothing is to be taken at face value, at least that's what I experienced.

Username: hestotallyweird

I will answer for a dear friend She's in her 50s now, but the harassment continues to haunt her as a result of her nudes/malicious ex. She has no social media presence whatsoever. She's a low level executive in a somewhat high profile career.

It started 15 years ago her ex and her filmed sex for their own enjoyment. It was a LDR in the the early 00's so video chat wasn't a thing. The relationship ended when he got engaged to someone else and she didn't want to keep hooking up.

On his last visit he somehow download all her contacts off her home computer. He proceeded to email stills of their tape to people using an alt account which made it appear the message was coming from her.

If the name and her contact was a man he would type up some random thirsty message and say she wanted the D. If the contact was a woman it was about how she was thinking of becoming lesbian. All of her friends got messages her boss her HR department head, her former boss, her ex's, other random people that were saved as a contact in Outlook.

Fast forward a few years and it's becoming more necessary for professionals to have LinkedIn accounts or social media. Every time she would get a social media account under her name the people on her friends list or her contacts would receive a still from the sex tape. Her ex had actually gotten slightly more sophisticated and had faceswapped her face from the tape into hardcore scenes from porn.

She took him to civil court over it about 10 years ago and lost the case because she couldn't absolutely prove it was him doing it. Tracking down IP's is understood now, and some laws exist, and some judges sort of understand the internet. But 10 years ago she had to pay her stalker's legal fees when the case got thrown out.

The judge actually chastised her for being such a slut. He couldn't understand that just because the email had her name in the header doesn't mean it's her sending the pic. Couldn't understand "her" emails were coming from out of state and couldn't possibly be actually from her. It was a hard loss that broke her will to fight.

As recently as 4 years ago she was with a new company and got mentioned on Facebook in the company Christmas photo. Every person in the photo with her was emailed a porn still and a raunchy story to go with it.

Fortunately they were forewarned (yes, when she got hired she LITERALLY had to sit down with HR and say "I have a sexual stalker you will likely get naked photos of me, I can't stop it"). Bear in mind dude that is doing this is also in middle age and at that point had been married for years.

Username: DarthJaneway

When I was 11, I accidentally send a nude to my school group chat. It was a really traumatic experience considering I was so young, I managed to delete it and I thought only 3 people saw but I was humiliated by my whole grade, all my friends laughed at me and most of them dropped me because it was embarrassing to be around me after what happened.

I told myself there's no way my life would be able to continue after that day and i was going to kill myself, but falling asleep stopped me. I spent months crying myself to sleep and being afraid to go to school or even wake up because of the humiliation I felt.

I developed anciety everytime i got a notification or anytime i went anywhere in public, doing anything normal became hell for me and bullying kept getting worse. I still thought about it every week for around half a decade until now, when it all properly resurfaced. I thought everyone had forgot about it, it was time that made things like this pass and I had been so glad it had passed, or adleast I thought.

I was in a class I had no friends in. A group of girls came up to me all laughing saying "are you the girl that sent that titty pic in the 5th grade." My heart instantly dropped and all I could really do was deny it. When I told them no they all persisted and said they had seen it, and told me I was a dirty pig.

My whole classroom had heard it and was looking at me, some were whispering, some scrunched up their face. It was all to overwhelming and tears started rolling down my face uncontrollably. Just as I thought nothing could get worse one of the girls pulled our their phone and they had the photo.

They all huddled up and muttered slurs, pointing out every part of my body and how much of a gross slut I was. Then they went around the classroom showing everyone, some people saying "ew send that to me send it to me". The teacher didn't care one bit. I felt at the lowest point of my life then, it felt like someone had tied the world's heaviest weight to my chest.

I got up and ran out the class sobbing, I made a full plan to stab myself in the bathroom that morning. Our school spread rumours like a wildfire, and there was a school gossiping and school exposed page, I knew it was only a matter of days before the photo would be there too

It's been a few hours since it's all happened. I feel horrible, stressed, terrified. And I have to go to school tomorrow. It's only gonna be a matter of time before the whole school sees it. I was fucking 11. If it gets put up on my school student made accounts I will kill myself and I'm serious.

Username: chloe_durden92

I've commented about this before, and I imagine my comment will probably end up buried, but here goes anyways. When I was 20ish I had my nudes leaked by a jealous girl. Theres a lot of story leading up to the point that she actually leaked them, but given the focus of the thread I'm going to leave this comment without the extensive backstory.

She was absolutely nuts, like she really has something wrong with her head. She took nudes that her new boyfriend (my old boyfriend) was in possession of, some of these were from before I was 18 as this had been an ongoing thing since I was 17. (Not a lot of options when your boyfriend lives a province away, so nudes were pretty optimal for us.)

She created fake profiles on everything, Facebook, Instagram, meetme, imgur, more I've probably forgotten. She posted my nudes on the profiles and added all of my family and friends. She posted a story about how I made my ex try and kill himself, and how I've put him through hell.

She sent a letter to my mom's house with a threat. She sent me tons of threatening messages over Facebook with tons of different profiles (some her name, some her baby's name, some totally random)

When I went to the police I was told that if I wanted to lay charges against her they would have to lay charges against me for having sent my underage long distance boyfriend my own underage nude pictures. So I was left to deal with her and fear her without even feeling like I had the safety of the law behind me.

If you google my real full name you can still find some of the things I couldn't get removed. Facebook was pretty helpful for getting things taken down, but meetme in particular was a complete joke in trying to get the profile taken down. It's still there, but you can only see it if you also have an account. I had to let my workplace know what was going on in case she tried to tarnish my name there. That was pretty embarrassing.

All in all, I was already the black sheep of the family, but she completely solidified that position having aired some of the not-so-good things I'd done, and also having posted my nudes for the whole family to see. I know I wouldn't really wanna see my cousins nude, and it would be weird around them after if I did, so I can't really blame my fam.

The most disappointing part for me was the position the police took, and I'm glad I've already seen some laws come into place that protect girls in these types of situations. The worst part is that the totally nutso chick who spread my nudes has a fucking kid. I feel so bad for that kid.

Username: moondeli

One day back in 2014 I was extra horny and decided to see if Chat Roulette was still a thing. After a while of dicks and laughing I see this girl with dark skin. She's really cute with makeup on and some pretty trendy clothes. We start typing to eachother, no vocal communication.

She asks for my Skype account so we can video chat sometime. I say sure and give it to her. We keep chatting about whatever and one thing leads to another and she's undressing. She tells me she wants to see my dick. Because my penis is overriding my brain at this point, I whip it out.

After a few seconds of this the screen goes black. I'm shown a video playback of myself with my dick out, then the video cuts to my facebook page where a mouse hovers over my current girlfriend's profile. Then the mouse moves to my mother, sister, everyone else I have linked there.

The dude wanted something like $700 to not send the video. At the time I only had about $900 in my bank account, but I lied and told him I only had 100. I tried pleading with him but he spoke very broken english. I tried to negotiate myself out of it for what seemed like hours, and it almost worked a couple times. I'd say stuff like "You are going to ruin my life and make me horribly depressed. How do you live with yourself? Don't you have a heart at all? Please man don't do this."

You could tell he was getting soft and feeling bad about it. Then he would snap himself back into tough mode and start typing all caps demanding the money. After realizing I wasn't getting off, I wired him the $100 through western union which he said would be fine. Then, right after he gets the money, he starts demanding more. I blocked him, deleted my skype account, and deactivated my facebook account.

It was about 7am and the sun was coming up at this point. I was expecting to pass out and wake up to hear my girlfriend received the video. When I didn't, I assumed it would happen later. The next couple of weeks was pure anxiety hell for me. I had my first panic attack and a brief stint of xanax addiction as a result.

The video was never sent. Looking back and from the research I did afterward, I don't think he ever planned on sending it. But the $100 was worth the slight peace of mind at the time. My biggest takeaway (besides don't ever do that shit again) was it was weird that I almost broke him as he truly did start to sympathize. Makes me a little sad thinking about what his circumstances might be that lead to doing something like that.

Username: bigdumbthrowaway12

I'm sure this is going to get buried but I want to tell this story incase someone else is going through the same thing I did. I was 17 and I had a boyfriend who had some photos of me (taken from the time I was 16-17 years old) My boyfriend at the time was 18-19 when they were taken. I was under the impression that they were for his use.. boy was I wrong

Unbeknownst to me, he was using them in some weird online photo trading ring. It's a little complicated but there was a girl who asked for photos of guy's girlfriend's in exchange for photos of "her" (I say "her" because I'm really not sure it was a girl).

He did this without my knowledge or consent. I found out when and a friend of mine messaged me and said he wasn't sure these were me but had it on pretty good record that they were. He said he got them from someone name Sarah. (The name of the "girl" which I think was really him but that's another story).

Turned out that my boyfriend had been doing this for a long time with different people. I broke up with him. At the time I found out I was 2 weeks from turning 18. I was worried about media coverage as I was studying media at the time.

I consulted an instructor confidentially and I was told that because things like this were so new (at the time), there was a good chance it would get a lot of media coverage and she couldn't be sure that because I would be 18 when it came to light that I would be protected.

Now I think it's a bit different because these things are recognized as sex crimes.I wanted a career in media and I didn't want my name to be attached to that if someone looked me up. I decided not to press charges.

However, the mental repercussions were massive. I slipped into a deep depression and almost killed myself. I was eventually diagnosed with PTSD and it took me years to recover. It ruined sex for me for a long time. I had to get therapy for that as well and destroyed a long term relationship I was in a couple of years after the incident.

If you're someone who is thinking of doing this to someone for whatever reason. Please don't. It might seem like great revenge or maybe even 'funny' but you very well could ruin someone's life. Not in the vengeful "I'm going to ruin your life" way but in a literal, it may drive them to suicide way.

As for the boyfriend, I don't have contact with him anymore. After the aforementioned relationship fell apart I contacted him to ask why he'd done this because I was stuck on that. He told me he still lay awake (4 years later) asking himself the same thing and that he wished he had a better answer than that. We talked off and on via text for a few months after until I moved and changed my number which I decided not to give him.

I moved on with my life, I'm now happily married with a daughter and while I still suffer from depression, I have recovered from the incident. I did some digging when I saw this post. It looks like he's happy and bought a house with a girl. I sincerely hope that he has changed.

Username: cookies_cat

Well. Let's see. This was around three or four years ago, back when I'd just broken up with my ex. Things were done amicably, although he took a lot of resisting and was very emotional about it, which was very hard. In all, we ended on seemingly good terms, though.

Back story: between my ex and I, we had a friend I'll call A. I knew A longer than I knew my ex as we grew up primary school together. We knew each other since we were three, and very close friends. A few comments were made growing up, "Oh Mollypop, I think A fancies you" etc, but I thought everyone was being small minded because we were girl and boy.

A never flirted with me, we were more like brother and sister. I never had the impression otherwise, we were very close in that sense and had a great friendship. When my ex and I got together, both him and A got even closer, all was cool.

Anyway, fast forward to me breaking up with the ex. Around two months later, I get a message from the ex. A long-winded, very well written message, explaining how very, very sorry he was for what he was about to explain. Oh fuckityfuckfuck, what.

Long story short, after the breakup the ex had a night of drinking with two or three other guys, one of them including A. A was lovely during the breakup too, always saying he still sees me as his friend and nothing changes, etc.

So, ex got drunk and remembered he had nudie pictures of me. This is where I felt like an absolute moronic and full on idiot here. Why didn't I think to ever ask him to delete them? Anyway. Ex decides to show the guys at his get together. Just a glimpse of them, whatever. If this was the end of it, I was pissed off, but I could get over it so long as he's deleted them.

No, after he showed the guy, they all stayed the night. A, of all people, in the middle of the night, went on the ex's laptop with his own USB stick, and downloaded my nudie pictures to fucking take home with him. A boy I always considered my brother.

Ex found this out because a few days later, ex stayed at A's house, and asked to use his laptop to search something. Saw a folder with my fucking name on it, boom the rest is history.

What did I do about it? For the first half an hour I just sat there, reeling at what I'd read. Like a double whammy of shitty behavior. I was so, so angry. Angry at the ex for keeping the pictures but for showing them too. So disgusted by A's actions, absolutely disgusted.

Ex wriggled out of it so well, he was so 'humble' in his 'apology' that was so well-written, but he was always good of talking his way out of things like that. A...well, I sent him one message. "Tell me you've deleted them. Delete them now."

"I have. Sorry." And...the rest is history. A disappeared off the face of the earth. Did not contact a single person in my friend's group. Moved from his mother's, last I heard, which was weird since he was a mammy's boy through and through.

The person I judge and am most angry at was myself. I was young when I sent those pictures, foolish, and never once thought to politely ask, post-breakup, for the ex to delete them. Far too much trust in me.

Username: mollypop94

I was 17 and a senior at a private, religious high school when I sent a topless photo to my boyfriend, which turned out predictably awful when we broke up a month later. A freshman that I didn't know came up to me between classes and informed me that someone had my photo up on a computer screen in a classroom, and everyone was taking pictures of it with their phones.

This had happened to a friend of mine a few years prior, and once the school found out about it, they expelled her. Their view was that if the student came forward and let them know what was going on, they could attempt to control the situation, and the student could stay enrolled.

After finding out about my recent fame, I felt I had no choice but to go to the administration and let them know what was going on. They took away my cell phone (probably illegal), wouldn't let me talk to my dad (maybe illegal?), and called the police on me.

The police came down to the school and informed me that I was distributing child pornography, because I was technically sending naked images of a minor. I was crying and throwing up for hours, going back and forth between the bathroom and the in-school suspension room.

They searched my phone (and found nothing), and still wouldn't let me talk to my dad. When I named the person responsible (because fuck him), they brought him in, but quickly dismissed him, because I was the one who "started it all".

I ended up with 2 weeks of suspension a month before graduation. That meant that I missed a bunch of assignments, which my teachers were obviously not sympathetic to. I barely passed my classes, and got to spend the last few weeks of high school with people whispering and laughing at me in the halls.

Some of my more religious "friends" even got together to write me a letter, saying that they couldn't be friends with me any more because God told them not to be friends with sluts. I was a virgin at the time.

And my ex? No punishment. He was on a sports team and had a scholarship to college, and they "didn't want to hurt his future". In their minds, I was the one who originally took and sent the photo, so I brought it on myself. The police dropped the charges, my parents were still furious, and I crawled into a hole until I left for college.

Username: meryljeanne

my story is more different than others. at 18 years old i was conned by a porn agent. I went through an extreme depression and was kicked out of my house, i desperately needed money and this agent promised me i would do the lowest profile stuff that no one would everrr see, well this bitch was soo wrong. she had booked me with bangbros on my first shoot (the biggest porn producers at the time and i had no idea at the time). I was soooo naive

well the second the videos showed up on the web 2 months later my town went crazy. I live in a big yet small town where eveyone has grown up here and knows each other. i became the town pariah, everyone treated it soo personally. a girl i used to be friends with rounded up a posse and started harrassing the hell out of me (including adults). I have lost all my friends and they havent come back. (i 24 now) I ruined my life all because of this ridiculous stupid mistake.

whats good though is my parents and i were able to have all free porn sites taken down so if you try to search for me its very hard. this crazy guy actuallly bought a website for just me but thankfully thats gone now too.

Please dont judge me for doing porn, if you guys got offered a grand for an hour of your time and they told you it wuld not go hugely public and you were desperate for money maybe you'd consider it too.
I know how how horrific of a mistake that was, i miss my innocence, i miss my friends. My family was actually the most amazing, understanding family ever! My mom is such a beautiful person she understood i made mistake and was the only one to take my back when everyone was harassing me. If you guys are wondering, she didnt kick me out, my dad did and i couldnt live with her because she owns a company and travels the world.

anyways my life has never recovered from this, the anxiety and depression i experience from doing this to myself has never gone away. I have actually developed physical and mental symptoms from all the guilt. I have developed a crazy form of social anxiety, my only human contact is here on reddit. And i blame it all on porn. So having your nude self blasted on the web will be sure to bring you horror.

Username: Samychristine

A few months ago my mom received the pics I took of myself more than a year ago for a random number. I send those pics to a guy who now I know was a jerk. My mom gave that talk of which woman a wanted to be and referred to me as a bag.

She asked me "Do you want to be an expensive bag or a cheap bag?" those things in that talk made me feel horrible. She told my dad after we found out the number of who sent her those pics was outside the country. My dad did talk to me for 3 days and that hurt as hell because my dad and me have such a beautiful relationship.

I went to college in person after 3 years of virtuality and it didn't sucked the first 3 months. In those months I just worried or stressed and felt my heart skipped a beat when a unknown number text to me or someone sent me pictures. But this last month he started college, he's attending the same college that I attend.

The first time I saw him, his friend told him I was in there, they tried to walk away but some of them thought that was a bad a idea so they kept they way. I called my bff when I saw him and when he walked past me we maintained eye contact until he broke it. Minutes later I had a panic attack that mental health professionals intervened.

Currently I'm taking therapy and each time I see him walking through college or one of his friends I want to cry and throw up. Sometimes I can smell his perfume and it just makes the same effect on me, I want to cry and throw up.

Each time I'm outside I'm always afraid of meet him or worse that he see me with someone and decide to send those pics to that person I'm with. I haven't told my family, just 5 people know about this and I'm counting my therapist.

I haven't reported it, however, after my mother received those pics, I wrote to him and told him not to do that again because I was going to take legal action.

Username: Creepy_Criticism8769

Time for a story I'm not proud of. Back in high school, I used to go to a lot of parties. And during one party, I met this tall cute guy who had a thing for military clothes. He was cool at first, and we started dating. But it was that high school manner of dating, where you barely know someone first and things go fast.

I had a fetish for dudes jacking off, so I convinced him to send me a video. And boy, it was NOT hot. He was super awkward about it the whole video trying to make it look like a porno I wound up just laughing through it (but I didnt tell him that).

Well, a few weeks later I found out he was a neo nazi. I dumped him sooooo fast. He wasnt too happy about that, and he set up a program to spam text my phone multiple times per minute. At this point, I had one of those crappy little flip phones.

So getting that many texts was not only expensive, but also made my phone freeze up (this was like, 2005, mind you). I kept telling him to stop but he wouldn't. I wound up having to get a new phone.

After blocking all the numbers he made and getting a new phone entirely, he made NEW numbers and tried again. I texted him saying to stop or I'd post that fapping video (he had no nudes of me). He ignored me and kept doing it, so I ended up posting the video to some amateur porn site and linked it to him. He kept spamming me, but after a few days he got over it. Also with the video, the title was his full legal name. I went hard on him for that.

On one hand, I shouldnt have posted his fapping video for revenge. But on the other hand, he was a sorry excuse for a human. Its a double edged sword here. Honestly though, I cant remember his last name so I can't even find the video anymore. But last I saw it, some people commented on it finding that awkward video super hot and want more. Maybe he'll become a porn star.

Username: pumpkinsnice

Not me personally, but I feel compelled to comment. When I was browsing GoneWild I found a profile I liked, so I went in to their history to see any other pictures they may have posted and found a comment of hers on another post where she seem pretty excited.

I clicked on the post to see what it was about and...holy shit, that looks like my girlfriend's back. My heart in my stomach, I click on the OP and luckily the girl's profile (which was verified) looks strikingly similar to my girlfriend, so I convince myself it isn't her.

I still took a picture of the post and exited my browser because I was pretty rattled, then sent it to my girlfriend. She. Fucking. Lost. It. Immediately demanded to see the profile I found it on, but since I viewed it in a private window, it was gone.

I had to search for a solid 45 minutes while throughout the whole process she matched up beauty marks and moles--every single one matched hers. I eventually found it again, and at this point she was convinced it was taken without her knowledge when SHE WAS A MINOR.

After giving her the profile, she more or less told me to stay out of it. I kept trying to help in one way or another, but she went to work with her friend and they found it across 20+ sites, eventually down to the original post to Tumblr. I'm not sure what happened since, she hasn't updated me on it and I haven't been inclined to ask. I'd purge it from my mind if possible.

Beyond the initial find, she was scared that I'd never look at her the same way again, that'd it would ruin our sex life or even ruin our relationship. I'll admit that it's extremely hard to get back to where you once were after you've seen your girlfriend bent over, spread open taking another man, but it's not anything I can or will hold against her. I do feel a pure, unadulterated hatred for the slimy piece of shit who posted it and would like to do things to him that would land me in jail, but that's neither here nor there.

Username: UniqueComboOfLetters

I was dealing with an internet stalker for almost a year now. they picked up pictures of me and began posting them on local sites claiming to be me. they also figured out where i worked and sent men to my job to solicit sex. basically this person rp’d as me and said i was into being raped, kidnapped, and encouraged men to take pictures of me without my consent, stalk me, and confront me about sexual acts at work. on the advice of law enforcement i shut down my internet presence and waited it out until they could get enough info on who was doing it.

i can only say so much (this is still an active case) but the stalker has been apprehended and felony charges are on the table. My stalker lives in a different state, and has never met or interacted with me. They also apparently did this same thing to their girlfriend while they were dating her.

They’ve been in prison since October, and I was recently informed that they did not qualify for mental health assistance in prison, which means that my detective and the detective in the state in which my stalker lives will be attempting to get the original heavy charges to stick.

this has been one of the most terrifying times of my life, and obviously im sparing y’all the gritty details because it still makes me physically sick to think about. i dont know this person, have never met them, and if the case goes to trial i will most likely be asked to make an appearance in court out of state.

im in the process of working with a victim advocate to figure out how to proceed, as well as figure out where to go for trauma and ptsd relief. im sharing this info with you guys because i feel like its important to share. stalking and harassment on the internet is just as real as anywhere else, and you can press serious charges. i was lucky in that i managed to grab screenshots and get competent detectives to review my case, as well as individuals in the judicial system who took the case super seriously and moved quickly to apprehend and charge.

im still kind of reeling from the whole thing, and it was a very personal and very scary experience that i wouldnt wish on anyone. im sharing because maybe it will help someone gain the courage to seek help.

Username: slaughterfodder

Not me but an old aquainance - I was the owner of a group Dropbox for two courses taken for a university program in my first year. There were maybe 22 of us in the classes and the Dropbox. I left the Dropbox with the course material active after the class ended in case if anybody needed anything (it was fairly useful material for most of the degrees we were pursuing after the first year program) but like nobody uploaded or modified any of the files in there for two years.

I have Dropbox installed on my computer for ease of access, and one day in third year I get a notification on my compiter that (let's call him) "Jack Black has uploaded filexyz.jpg" to that folder. I was pretty confused so I clicked on it. Turns out that jpg was a risque selfie of his junk.

To this day I'm still not sure if this was an accidental upload or not (I mean why would you be putting a photo like that into your Dropbox anyways, it would be pretty hard to accidentally select a shared university folder I would think.

Also, this dude has been building a career in conservative politics, he's never seemed like the type to do something exhibitionist like that, but I guess you never know with people). I've discussed this incident with other friends in the Dropbox and we all seem to want to believe it was a mistake, but can't quite figure out how one would make that mistake.

He was always a little bit distant from the group even though we were all pretty good friends (a lot of us quietly questioned his decision as a gay man to get involved witrh the Conservative Party but nobody ever treated him badly or differently than the rest of us based on personal politics) but he unfriended a lot of us after the photo thing happened (maybe embarrassment but who knows, maybe it was the final step in a three year estrangement - either way he left the photo there and it's still there.

There is a very remote possibility he isn't aware it's there but given how hard it would be to accidentally upload something to this particular folder we don't believe that's the case). I don't think it ended up further "leaked" onto the internet beyond our group Dropbox thankfully.

Username: nata1900

Little late to the party but this is relatively recent. It was recently discovered that there was an online 'trading card' game of girls in my hometowns nudes, some of the photos being leaked dated back 10 years or so to when they were underage. A few of my friends had been posted and were really distraught over it.

I was really angered over it and seeing my friends so stressed out worrying when or if they would be posted so, I started doing some digging around and contacting anyone I could to see what I could do about it. I have a lot of nudes floating around (none are public to my knowledge) and I kinda knew this was going to make me a target with the guys involved (small town politics and I had a pretty good idea of who some of them were at this point and they knew I was actively trying to figure them out) but I wasn't really concerned if it wound up happening.

I did nude and topless airbrush modelling about 8 years ago and these photos have been on public portfolios and various forms of social media since then. They're pretty hard to find now unless you know they exist, it takes me a good twenty minutes of sorting through photos to find them when I want to show people. So, after it's made aware that I'm onto these guys, my old as fuck airbrush modelling photos wind up on this site.

Honestly? I would have been far less creeped out if someone had leaked nudes that I took a few months ago because whoever posted the photos has either had them saved and just kicking around for 8 years or very clearly remembered me sharing them that long ago and then spent a good chunk of time tracking them down.

I didn't care for the most part, I was mostly weirded out but the site has been shut down as of a week ago so, it all worked out.

Username: bohemianwitchcraft

This is ass backwards, but I was the one who leaked them. We were dating and in highschool, but went to different schools. I helped her get a job at where my sister worked and we got a long great. One day after coming over after work she gave me her phone to hold on to.

A few minutes later she was leaving the room and asked for her phone back kind of spontaneously. So her being 5'3" and me being 6' I held it from her jokingly but as she was trying to climb on my wrestling it back my fingers had jumped to a message log of one of her coworkers.

She had sent him a picture of her in a corset. She tried to say he must have done that when she left her phone in the break room. I said she wouldn't have done that because she didn't even want to leave this room without her phone.

So, I told her to leave. Then like a clock my brain figured something out. My Ex before this girl had used sprint. And at this time they had a website for Sprint picture mail. I would constantly delete the texts on my phone because I was playing football and I knew the guys would take ant opportunity to look through my phone. So my ex just gave me her spring picture mail login so I could view the pictures on there instead of constantly asking for the pictures.

So, while I was at home I created this excuse. "Hey cheating ex, I logged myself out of my email and they send the password via text but won't send it to tmobile could I send it to you?" She said sure and when she got it and sent it and asked why did the text say sprint picture mail password I played ignorant and said I had no clue.

I logged on there and saw she had sent probably 1k nudes out of the course of our relationship to different guys. And probably 100 different videos. I was livid. So one of my buddies actually came from the school she goes to. So I asked him if he would be willing to help me out. He said sure. So on the night my football team played hers my buddy leaked out the nudes to everyone in his contacts that went to that school. =Weeks later she said I ruined her life but I probably just gave her from advertisement.

Username: chumbawamba56

A spiteful ex leaked nudes and videos he took of me both with and without my knowledge to first our friends, then the employers he knew I was applying to. Somehow they got out to the rest of our MtG shop and I have yet to return to said shop because the employees would not do anything when I asked them for help navigating the harassment I was facing.

I did not finish all four rounds after a guy asked me for a blow job in exchange for factually reporting my win. I lost a lot of friends that night. It's a national store for MtG, and eventually I just quit playing because you can't really get around not giving said store your money if you're into MtG.

Job wise, it screwed me because I was recently out of work and it took a long time to get my name and contact info (oh yeah, did I mention he put my email address and my old phone number there, too?) off those sites. Also keep in mind this town is the Bible Belt, and I got a lot of accusations of being a sex worker (I personally have nothing wrong with that, but I'm not one), offers to trade drugs for sex, and even had some Nazi stalkers for awhile online.

Still working on getting the rest. I eventually moved away from the small town after landing an internship in a bigger city and I haven't had the same issues since. Either the sites are obviously revenge porn sites if they do come up and my employers are mindful of what that means, or they're scrubbed now. I don't know. I know they're no longer an easy Google search.

It doesn't matter how mad you are at your ex. Don't leak the nudes. I've been cheated on and done dirty before this, and I know what the urge for revenge is like. All I'm saying is don't do it like this if you must get revenge. I lost most of the folks I knew in my old town because of what my ex did. I know I wasn't the best partner, but considering where this was, it ruined my life for a long time, and for breaking up with an abuser.

Username: LilkaLyubov

Summer before high school I went on a school trip to Canada. One night we were all hanging out in the hotel room, and one of the girls from my friend group pulled me into the bathroom and was basically demanded to see my dick. I told her she was crazy and I wasn't showing her.

(I hadn't done anything more than kissed a girl by that point so I wasn't about it, although looking back I shake my head) Well long story short she says I probably didn't show her because I have a little nub for a dick. She spreads it around, and I hear shit about it my whole first year of high school.

Move to year two of high school I get into an accident that leaves me homebound for months. In that time I get extremely bored, and by that time I'm a little more experienced with girls. I end up hitting on one of my best friends, who was a very sexual person, and she convinced me to send a pic.

I figured why not I had nothing better to do. Well needless to say she's quite impressed. Exact wording was something along the lines of "... you are definitely no nub." A couple of days later another friend asks, and I know how all of this built up ego from the first complement, so I a Blige.

Again very impressed. A couple more days pass, and then her older sister texts and says "hey I saw a pic and I want my own proof." I'm feeling a little weird now because so many people are asking, but yet again I agree because shes 18 I'm thinking I'm a king at this point.

A couple more weeks go by, and I am finally healed enough to go back to school. Come to find out evvvvvveryone had seen the pics. When I say everyone, I mean everyone. I was from a small town, things spread like fire. I even got a job, and my manager was about 23, but hung out with some people my age.

He even walked up while I was stocking a shelf and said "youre pretty photogenic." I went red in an instant. I knew what was up, but we were cool he just wamted to fuck with me. Apparently his gf had seen and showed him, but it was just everywhere.

Eventually I came to accept it. My gf next gf would costly have her phone stolen in class, and people would look through her pics to see it. One guy saw, and was like "well I've seen bigger. " ... stuff like that got weird.

Username: Tville88

I was roofied at a party a few years ago that happened to be taking place in a bar, so there were people I knew there as well as strangers. My friends took care of me pretty quickly once they realized what was going on; got me cleaned/dressed up and home to bed, but not before some strangers had snapped some nudes of me.

From what I'm told, once the roofies kicked in, I was in the bathroom and unable to pull my pants up. I'd also gotten sick and attempted to clean myself up, but was too weak. I somehow made my way out into the main part of the room with my pants down and shirt off, covered in vomit. Some people in the bar thought that was pretty funny, and apparently a great photo opportunity.

Now if that isn't shitty enough, I wouldn't have even known about these pictures if it weren't for the fact that some of the strangers posted them to their Facebook accounts. They and their friends all had a good laugh at my expense. I only found out bc a mutual "friend" (read: some jerk who was a friend of a friend of a friend) saw one of the original pictures and began messaging (taunting) me about it. He, along with a lot of other people (mostly dudes) really tried slut shaming the hell out of me for a couple weeks. He wouldn't give up the name of his friend, and the authorities at Facebook couldn't help me without a name.

When it was all said and done, I decided to just play it off. Thankfully it was over about as quickly as it started, but these pictures of me exist and they're still out there. I'm not ashamed and I came to realize very quickly that whoever took/posted/laughed at the pictures are the ones who should be disgusted by themselves, not me.

Username: Barfignugen

I used to be a pretty slutty girl on the web. Played lots of video games and met many guys that I just felt attracted to. I loved showing off online so we would skype. I would turn my cam on and start off innocent and fun. Eventually we would be having full blown skype sex. I did this with many guys. I just thought it was fun! No harm just masturbating together.

Then I met a guy in a game. Started off the same. We did things for a little then just lost contact. Months to a year later he messages me again we start talking. He brings up how he recorded me and was threatening to show my friends and family via facebook the video if I didn't keep doing things with him. He showed me other girls he recorded and showed me that he put it up on motherless and I was mortified.

I told him how I felt and he started apologizing, took down the video, and was saying he thought I liked blackmail foreplay.. I never said anything near that. He said he would stop but kept going. I finally just deactivated my fb blocked him everywhere I could, and just hoped he would never show up again.

I would occasionally check my mother facebook messages on the "Others" tab (people that weren't her friend) to see if maybe he actually did something.

Never heard from him again. There still might be a video out there but I can't do anything. I haven't thought about this for a while and it makes me so scared to bring up.

You would have thought I learned my lesson and stopped skype sexing guys I met online but I was just too horny and lonely. I would send nudes to practically anyone who asked (no face tho). It was just fun for me. I loved when a guy would compliment me.

You don't get much irl action when you play video games in your free time and have no friends to go out with. I'm in a healthy relationship now, met the him online (shocker) but thankfully he's a keeper.

Username: guilliblegirl

My first boyfriend was a little *too* open about his exes. He would talk in length about what they liked in bed, stuff that I didn't think they would really want his current girlfriend knowing about, but I made my disinterest clear so he stopped.

Well, he got me to send him 'nudes' when we were dating, but they were 90% underwear pics and I was very thorough to not show my face in them--because of the above incident, I knew he would probably be very open letting other people see them.

He showed them to a bunch of the guys he liked to flirt with, which I didn't find out til they told me but I was unsurprised and unbothered (mostly) because I prepared for that to happen.

It felt a lot more violating when he told *everyone* he knew the... graphic details of our sex life. I was sixteen, my kinks weren't socially acceptable though nothing 'gross,' just kinky. So I had a bunch of freshmen and sophomores in high school who knew that I was into being beaten and tied up during sex.

At the time, *that* felt very violating and hurt a lot. I knew I could either become the girl with the scarlet letter of my school or I could become a metaphorical modern beacon of openness and sex positivity. /s (I basically just owned my reputation as a sexually liberated hoe)

So before he could let the really 'juicy' stuff out, I openly talked about it all on my own. So yeah I developed a mild reputation as a slut but it didn't last because I only ever had sex with my boyfriend, and kinkiness became less taboo as I went into my senior year so they didn't care about it anymore.

The legitimately obnoxious repercussion was being blackmailed by one of the band moms into going to church with her family--she said my parents would find out otherwise and they did not need to know about my sex life, lmao.

Username: B0sm3r

I used to play World of Warcraft a lot post high school. Had my fair share of internet romances which of course because I am a genius included photos and videos. I had transferred servers just before this all occurred but one photo specifically went around and another short video which didn't show my face went around as well.

Others got in on the fun and it was an onslaught of harassment. Creating level 1s to harass me. Messaging other people in the guild. Finding my social media. Sending photos to my family. Insulting my friends.

Any troll thing you can think of they did. I had started a new relationship and he was a piece of shit too. Emotionally abusive and berated me every time they did anything.

Whole thing was absolutely awful. My work was vaguely aware of the situation and blocked any incoming calls regarding me. Ended up going to police and the main perpetrator had a warrant out for his arrest in my state.

Couldn't get a restraining order because there was no solid threat. I think the cops in his state ended up seizing his computer and investigating him a bit. This ceased most of it and his friends backed off out of fear.

I would say as far as my current life it has made me kind of weary. I worry about it coming back every so often but I don't feel like my life is necessarily worse because of it. I wouldn't say I am ashamed either. I was really athletic growing up and I looked great.

It kind of ruined a few good years of my life because I was constantly blocking, deleting, and generally afraid to check anything online. Obviously if I knew what I know now I wouldn't have trusted the same people but fuck them for being so shitty.

Username: kk4923

Was visiting my then-boyfriend (now spouse) in another state. Did lots of sexy things, and had lots of pictures of them on my phone. There were boobs, genitals (both of ours), facials, POV shots, everything.

I fly home. Time goes by. I fly back to see him a few months later. After I get off the plane, I stop in the bathroom to have a pee. I put my phone down on the toilet paper dispenser after I text him. I wipe, stand up, and leave - forgetting my phone. I didn't realize I had forgotten my phone until hours later.

Time goes by. Maybe 6 months or a year. I get a message from a male friend of mine that he thinks he's found a picture of me on an Tumblr amateur blog. He links it to me, and sure enough, there I am. Frosted from nose to navel. I am absolutely horrified. A couple of weeks later, a female friend finds another photo of me, also on Tumblr.

This time, smiling sweetly with my husband's penis in my hands, framed nicely by my boobs. I contacted both Tumblr accounts, and asked them to take the photos down. One owner was very understanding and did. The other didn't reply.

At this point, I tell my husband. The conversation was very awkward - he thought at first that I had sent these pictures to people, and they had leaked them. I of course denied this, and we eventually deduced that they were from my forgotten phone.

This all happened about 6-7 years ago. A few months ago, the same male friend as the first time contacted me again, and told me he found another one, and verified it by sending me a link.

All in all, I was mortified at first. I wanted to crawl out of my own skin. At this point though, I'm pretty much over it. Seeing a thread full of us makes me feel a little better.

Username: imabigdumbdumb

It didn't happen to me but a girl in my HS sent nude/underwear pictures to some guy who had a girlfriend of many years (Our class was very small so everyone knew everyone's bf/gfs). So when the girlfriend found out, she printed about 2,000 copies of the photos and placed them EVERYWHERE.

She taped them to the lockers, bathroom stalls, classroom doors, she slid a few copies underneath the doors, she threw them around the floor of the hallways, just everywhere. It was straight out of a movie.

You could clearly see it was the girl who sent them because her entire face was in the pictures and when everyone started arriving, no one knew what to say. People thought they were photoshopped or fake, other people kept a few copies, her friends were trying to clean up the mess, it was just crazy.

So by first period, they called in the girl who sent the pictures into the office and police officers were there. (From what I heard) She eventually told the cops who she had sent the pictures to and they brought him in for questioning only to eventually find out that it was his GF who had distributed the pictures.

The GF got into a buttload of trouble that went on for what seemed like weeks. They threatened her that she wasn't going to walk the stage (we were seniors) and they were going to ban her from Prom & Grad Nite but we saw her there so we're assuming she cut some sort of deal with the staff.

I just remember feeling so bad for the girl who had sent the pictures. You could tell it clearly had embarrassed her and scarred her. Not only that but it was her senior year and it was supposed to be a fun time but was ruined by a vengeful GF. The funniest thing is that the GF is still with the guy until this day (we graduated 6 years ago).

Username: Amax2192

Not exactly leaked photos but my first sexual interactions and the lose of my virginity was broadcast to a pedophile in Illinois without my knowledge. He had been abusing the girl I was with since she was 13, and had convinced her to give him VNC access to her computer and he accessed her webcam during this instances.

She knew and didn't tell me until months later, but he had convinced her that he had made her lovable so she owed it to him. I forgave her and we had a happy relationship for about seven years after that and an unhappy one for two years thereafter due to a mental illness she developed.

She wanted to prosecute him but when we went to child services the detective was corrupt and lost the evidence, completely misfiled the report and threatened to have her charged with making child pornography if she kept trying to prosecute him. Venice Dunn was her name, she was arrested for being in a prostitute ring with child prostitutes.

John has a six year old daughter now and was never jailed. I don't believe in extrajudicial violence so I never pursued it more outside of contacting other police departments, sadly due to the misfiling/lying of Venice I was told there was no hope for any case ever.

Had to move on, no justice...I am mostly over it though I really hate being around webcams. I have been fairly open about with most people I'm close to, if anyone ever finds the videos I don't think they'd judge me as they already know.

Username: IAmASolipsist

Not nudes, and not myself, but still, kind of the same idea. I was doing competition market research for a venture capital firm on dating apps as one of the pitches that came through was a dating app that wanted to be a mid-point between tinder and eharmony. My job was to figure out what kind of other dating apps were out there and how do they measure up against this guy.

Most of the stuff was pretty boring and mundane. You basically had every demographic under the sun having their own dating app. i.e. black singles, black christian singles, etc. Most of them were ghost towns but they all boasted having MILLIONS of users.

Because of this, my boss told me to see if I can figure out HOW they got those millions of users.My first instinct was that those profiles are MOST LIKELY fake. So I went on to one of the more generic ones, grabbed a sample of maybe 10 photos off of the site (all of them were young women), and did an image reverse search. ALL of them were off of other social media pages from other people's profiles.

I then got put in touch with a guy who used to work on one of these and asked him about this, he told me that this is actually incredibly common among these dating app devs. They will go scrape social media pages for pictures of young attractive people, and then feed the whole thing through a generator to generate thousands of profiles on their app to beef up their numbers so that it looks like they have a bunch of people. It's just the skeeviest thing ever. I wouldn't be surprised if the more risque ones were like that too.

Username: ell20